Thursday, July 30, 2009
Why do we wait till its to late?
“It has been said you never miss a good thing to its gone”, sitting here thinking about this statement and it’s so true. Last year when my grandmamma passed I highly upset because all the stuff I didn’t get a chance to tell her and I feel like all of my love for her was unheard. So, why is it that we never tell someone how much we cherish them before its too late?
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It's true for somethings. Somethings we know are good but we think it's too good to be true so we let it go before we get hurt. That's what I did and it was the DUMBEST thing I've ever done. I still think about her EVERYDAY. Everything seems to remind me of her. And I didn't realize all the good stuff we had when we were together. I only payed attention to the bad.
ReplyDeleteWe don't tell them because sometimes its hard for people to say their true feelings and sometimes you never suspect a person to die so young and early.
ReplyDeletebecause sometime we act stubburn. and try to act like we dont care but we really do.. at least with me... and u think that u will have all the time in the world to tell them. but we really dont. you let day affter day pass by.. thinking that people will still be here tommarow but.. every day not promise to you. and then b for u no it at a blink of a eye thier gone... in all we could do is question it... saying that i shouldve did this.... but now its to late...
ReplyDeleteYou never really think about it because it doesn't run through your mind, you obviously don't want to think about someone's death, or if they move half way across the world or anything, that's why you need to really cherish the moment you have with them before it is to late. I feel the same way because when my poppy (great grandpa) died, i was, so upset because i didn't get a chance to tell him anything i wanted to tell him, and i did regret it because whenever i was with him, i never thought how he'll pass away soon (cause i did know it) and i just... guess i didn't want to go on that topic with him at the time.
ReplyDeletei think for me, personally, that i get scared telling people how i feel because honestly, im scared of there reaction. An example would be when Monica, decided to tell a certain someone how i felt about them, and it was really embarrassing! so i flipped, because i was afraid of what he would say, like "oh, god no!" so a part of me wants to tell people how i feel, but im just scared of the reatction.
ReplyDeleteAnyone wanna give me some advice?
im guessing its because we never no whats gonna happen tomorrow.so that why i try to be nice to people or at least show respect.i lost a lot of people in my my half of life, so i no how it feels to not say your last good byes.
ReplyDeleteThis seems really relevant to Our America. The boys have an "urgency" to have Eric's story told. Does the media often wait too long?
ReplyDeleteTry and find the larger issues this personal narrative is approaching. What is the human issue? What's at stake in telling this story and asking this question?